One year ago, i met someone through the internet a muslim American, we are getting closed time by time, he always send me gift in my birthday (already 2 birthday times). I really respect him and he seems really love me like a daughter. i regard him as my father, he is my cyber father, but he is talking as really like a real dad. Recently i have someone who “i think” want to be closed with me, he shows his care, he picked me from school, he texts me, takes my picture, and ask me to go out on Saturday night. I think i never been treat like this before ^_^ happy? Ofcourse, but i am not sure wether i love him or not or he is love me or not, so i talked to my dad at that time, see his comments in my email, so touch... may Allah bless him.
Letter 1
Hello Honey...I hope this email find you in great health and great spirit... .. ... ...well..sometimes I fell bad to tell you things..like..go to bed and other things.. ...I do it..because..I do care about you and.. ..a lot.. ...you will have more time to have fun after you finish school..is going to be over soon..Inchaallah...again..you need to sacrifice in life to get what you want later..FB and Twitter will always be here.. ...right now..your first priority is..school and nothing else..Im so proud of you and proud that you doing well in school baby...in regard to ****(sensored)..I told him to be a gentleman to you and that you are a great lady..he is going to be very lucky..IF..IF..he want to be your BF..Inchaallah..but..dont let him do like *****(sensored lol) did ...you need him to respect you..your felling and wishes..you deserve someone to make you happy and be your partner in life..not just a bf or husband..he need to share you thoughts..felling..happiness..sadness and more..he need to be there for you for good times and bad times...give you his shoulder when you need it...he has to know if you happy or sad..by your tone of voice or by the way you look at him...a really man who really care and love someone..can read his/her partner...sorry to say this baby..is not all about sex and having babies...is all about sharing the rest of your life with someone that will take a bullet and die for you...someone..who will carry you on his shoulder when you crossing a raging river or climb a mountain....listen to you and also be your friend not just a husband...anyway..I hope this will help you and make you think before you act..again..let love come to you...sometimes..people rush to love and get hurt at the end and regret it...get to know him first and take your time and be sure he is the one for you and who is going to make your life happy and joyful as long as you live..anyway..I hope you listen to this old man... ... ...well..see you soon honey..please..take care of yourself and health...Allah bless you always and keep you happy and safe in this world.... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
Letter 2
Hello honey..I hope this email find you in great health and spirit...Im always happy to see you and talking to you baby...I have a felling that ****(sensored lol) like you.. ..I think you like him too.. ..but...but...get to know him lot more before you decide to have him as a bf..please...everything you said about him are totally different from *****(sensored)..he sound like he care about you a lot and respect you a lot also,,,but..again..like I told you..finish school first..go out with him as much as you can..thats how you know someone...always remember what he say to you so you know if he is lying to you..is like a diary in your mind..write down everything he said if you have too...lol..because..sometimes..someone can say something and later on say it different without him remembering what he had said before..be sure he is not just going to use you honey...you can tell if he really want to be with you as a gf/bf..or just as friends..please..please..dont get disapointed if he dont accept you as a gf..but..just as a friend...I pray and hope that..he may be the man you been looking for..Inchaallah..if it is..he found you and you didnt have to look for him..like I told you before..remember that..I told you..dont look for a man...let him find you baby...you deserve the best man on earth..because..you are very beautiful..smart..kind..intelligent..sweet and more..lol..you need to be happy with the right man in your life..and have beautiful children later..Inchaallah..your parents and I..will be very proud of you and very happy for you baby...well..I hope this mail will make you think and help you to make a great decision in your life...Allah bless you always..keep you healthy and happy as long as you live..please..take care of yourself.. .... ... .. ...
Letter 3
Hello honey.. .. .I hope this email will find you in a great health and spirit...I hope you doing well and are very happy...I really miss talking to you...I wish we can start talking again on YM..soon..Inchaallah...well honey...first of all..dont never jump in a river without knowing if it is safe to do..dont ever climb a moutain if you think you cant reach the top..but..everything is possible with faith...love is a very complicated matter..there is love and lust...lust is more a physical attraction without feeling...love..is unconditional,,but..you have to love yourself inside..accept the way you are and the way your look..if you love yourself for who you are..regardless of what others thing about you..you will find the love you looking for..there is the love of the siblings..they love you no matter who you are and what you do or have done in the past..especially your Mom and Dad..they loved you since you were born and not going to change that feeling..but..when it come to a man love..is different...he and you have to accept each other for who you are..he also need to love himself to be able to love you in return..another word..if you dont love yourself or he dont love himself either..is going to be a big problems later on in the relationship...what I mean is..if he dont love himself..how can he love you for the rest of your life and vice versa...love is..sharing..loving..caring..and more...but..when it comes to blames if a problem occur..both should take responsibility of what ever it is and talk about it in the open...blaming one or the other will just make life hard..also..if a problem occur from either of you..it has to be talked about right of way..otherwise..if too many problems built up inside one of you..it will come a day when..there is no room inside to absorb it..then is usually the end of the relationship...both party need to give a little...Honey..love..is a lifetime commitment...again..is like your parents..they will love you till the end of there life..thats is the only true love that anyone will receive...but..if you find the right man..Inchaallah..be sure you tell him what to expect from him and vice versa..like they say..put the cards on the table..dont leave an incomplete puzzle...there is so much about love..I myself dont know it all..all I know is from experience and Im passing on to you baby...I hope it will help...anyway..I shut my mouth now..lol...enough said for now...lol...well..Allah bless you always and keep you safe and give you wisdom to do the right things in life..either..love..faith..happiness...or anything you heart desire...please...take care of yourself and see you soon..Inchaallah.. ... ... ...
i think those are just... touchy :'). amin dad.
